Finishing Dead Last

Finishing Dead Last

The proverbs of Solomon the son of David, king of Israel.
Proverbs 1:1

The book of Proverbs contains some of the over 3,000 sayings of Solomon, who is known as the wisest man who ever lived (1 Kings 4:30).  Unfortunately, Solomon didn’t always heed his own advice and found his life, family, and testimony shipwrecked in the end.  “But how,” you ask?  By trusting in political expedience rather than in the Word of God.  Solomon thought he could secure the kingdom God had given to him by using human, man-centered, sinful means.  He married pagan wives in the hope of forging treaties and trade alliances with Israel’s natural enemies.  And the end result was watching Solomon’s love of his Lord slowly slip away as he gave into the pagan demands of his 700 wives and 300 concubines (1 Kings 11:3).

Yes, you read that right.  Solomon had 700 wives and 300 concubines.  And just so we’ll be on the same page, a concubine is the same thing as a wife, just not quite as special.  A concubine can be defined as: Wife, Second Class.  So Solomon had over 1,000 women in his life continually demanding his time and attention.  And, as their husband, it was his job to make them happy.  Or, at least to try to make them happy.

So how would Solomon, or you or me for that matter, make 1,000 women happy?  Simple.  You give them what they want.

Now think practically for a moment.  If Solomon spent just one evening with each of his wives and concubines, it would take him almost three years to have dinner with them all.  And that’s assuming he didn’t have one or two he liked more than the others that he would book for a longer engagement.  Plus, the jealousy and infighting among these women for Solomon’s attention and favors must have been fierce, to say the least.

So Solomon foolishly gave into their constant nagging to let them do what they wanted to do, including serving and worshiping the foreign gods they brought with them from home.  And in doing so, Solomon let down his guard, forsook his role as the spiritual leader of his home, and let the enemy of God breach the walls of the sanctity of his life.  He gave up on the most important duty entrusted to a man: to lead his family in the fear and admonition of the Lord (Eph. 6:4).  “If you want to worship Baal, fine.  Just don’t bother me about it.  Geez, give me a break.  But I had a really nice time with you tonight and I’ll see you again in a couple of years.”

I know what you’re thinking: “How could a man who is supposed to be so wise do something so stupid?”  Great question.  I’ve often thought the same myself.  But I’ve also found myself making the same mistakes Solomon did.  Has that ever happened to you?

Think about it, Solomon willingly forgot about the Lord’s warning to each of us regarding light and darkness and being unequally yoked.  He confidently ignored the warning that says, “Do not be deceived, bad company corrupts good character” (1 Cor. 15:33).  The bad company was the foreign gods Solomon allowed, not only into his kingdom, but also into his very house.  And the good character was Solomon himself.  He allowed himself to be corrupted by the evil influences in his life.

And there’s a lesson here for each of us.


Starting Strong, Finishing Weak

But Solomon didn’t start out that way.  Somehow this incredibly wise man went off the rails, got sidetracked and bamboozled, and didn’t listen to his own advice.  Like many of us he started out strong and committed, with unlimited potential and a bright future, and ended up as the classic example of someone getting everything they could ever want and still not be happy.

But it didn’t begin that way with Solomon.  And it usually doesn’t begin that way with us.

When Solomon was given the kingdom by his father David, he immediately recognized how inadequate and how unprepared he was for the job.  So what did he do?  He asked the Lord for wisdom.

“Now, O LORD my God, You have made Your servant king instead of my father David, but I am a little child; I do not know how to go out or come in.  And Your servant is in the midst of Your people whom You have chosen, a great people, too numerous to be numbered or counted.  Therefore give to Your servant an understanding heart to judge Your people, that I may discern between good and evil.  For who is able to judge this great people of Yours?” (1 Kings 3:7-9).

Solomon asked for wisdom and the Lord graciously granted his request and gave him not only more wisdom than anyone has ever had from that time until today, but He also gave him what he didn’t ask for: riches, honor and a long life (1 Kings 3:11-14).  All Solomon had to do was live according to God’s wisdom and not by the deceptive human philosophies and carnal teachings of his day (Col. 2:8).  And Solomon, like most of us, started out strong and then crashed and burned in a spectacular fashion.

Did you ever wonder why?

Probably because, like us, Solomon learned to trust his own instincts and intuition about life and not rely on the “still small voice” of God speaking wisdom into his heart (1 Kings 19:12).  Maybe Solomon felt, after a string of earthly successes, He didn’t need to rely on God as much now as a man as he did when he viewed himself as a boy.  Or maybe Solomon craved the approval of his peers more than the approval of His God.  Who knows?  But whatever internal voice led Solomon to his great fall is the same voice we are listening to today.  And be warned, we do this to our own great peril and regret.


Our Book of Practical Wisdom

The Book of Proverbs, especially the first 10 chapters, deal almost exclusively with how to acquire wisdom and why wisdom is so important for each of us.  Over the next 40 days we will look deeply into God’s Book of Wisdom to glean all He has to say to us.

And my prayer, for each of us, is to heed and follow the wisdom of God and not rely on our fallen, self-centered, narcissistic, feel-good understanding of the things of God we know nothing about.

Buckle up!  It looks like we’re in for quite a ride.

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324:  Complete in Him or Christ is Not Enough

324: Complete in Him or Christ is Not Enough

In Colossians 2 we find the church being warned about deception and being led away into error by persuasive and enticing words.  The word to them was to be “rooted and built up in Him and established in the faith” (Col. 2:7).

But what if we’re not?
What if we’re not rooted and grounded in Him and established in the faith?
What if we’re more concerned about this world and what it thinks of me rather than pleasing Him?
What if we want “My Best Life Now” today?
What if we’re more earth bound than heaven bound?

What happens when we try to satisfy our deepest needs and longings for acceptance, love, belonging, companionship, and purpose in our own flesh and not realize Christ has already satisfied those very needs in His flesh on the cross?

What do we do when we find ourselves in that dire strait?

To find out more about being complete in Christ, keep listening.

The following is a study on Colossians 1:9-10 and Proverbs 1:11-14.

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Proverbs 1:8-19 – The Danger of Bad Company

Proverbs 1:8-19 – The Danger of Bad Company

The Danger of Bad Company

One of the most overlooked and ignored warnings in all of Scripture is found in 1 Corinthians 15:33.  Here the Lord tells us to not be deceived.  But deceived about what?

1 Corinthians 15:33 – Do not be deceived:  “Evil company corrupts good habits.”

But what exactly does “evil company” and “good habits” mean?  And what do they have to do with the Proverbs?  Great questions.  Now let’s find the answers.

First, what it says:

1 Corinthians 15:33 – Do not be deceived (or, to be lead astray, to wander, to roam aimlessly, to be lead away from the truth and into error and sin, to mislead, to seduce):  “Evil (or, bad, worthless, wicked, vicious, malicious, cowardly, destructive) company (or, companionship, communion, conversation, speech, talk) corrupts (or, destroys, spoils, waste away, to utterly decay, to corrupt fully, to deprave) good (or, moral, useful, pleasing, virtuous) habits (or, morals, character, one’s manner of life).”

Then, what it means:

The Lord is warning us not to be easily deceived into thinking His Words and admonitions are meant for someone else, and not for us.  Maybe He meant them for someone not quite as spiritual as we are, someone not quite as mature, not quite as smart.  Maybe someone weaker, more naive, someone that can’t be trusted to always do the right thing at the right time like we can.  Really?

It’s just that kind of thinking that gets us into trouble every time.  Wouldn’t you agree?

The first warning is about deception.  We are not to be deceived into thinking what God is telling us is either not true, or doesn’t apply in our situation.  We are not to be deceived into believing this warning was meant for someone else.  Why?   Because that’s exactly the rationalization each of us makes regarding God’s Word whenever His Word won’t allow us to do what we want to do and what we think is right.  After all, we want to follow our heart, and to our own heart be true.  Yet we willingly forget God states our heart is “deceitful above all things and desperately wicked” (Jer. 17:9).  So, to have the knowledge of God, our heart would be the last thing we would want to follow.

Yet we still do.  Over and over again.

And we never seem to learn.

The second warning is about the essence of the deception.  And it’s the lie that we can play with fire and not get burned.   We can roll around in the mud with the farm animals and not get dirty.  We can live like the world, think like the world, look like the world, value what the world values and crave the world’s love and acceptance and yet remain pure from the world.  I mean, how stupid is that?

God tells us there is a one-way path when we associate with evil people.  Just one way.  And that way is from purity to defilement.  From virtue to sin, from light to darkness, from worth and value to corruption and decay.  It’s a one way street that leads from holiness to depravity, and not the other way around.

“But I know the Jesus in me will change their hearts if I just spend enough time with them and do the things they are doing.”  Don’t be deceived.
“But I love him!  And I know if we date or get married he will someday see the Jesus in me and become a Christian.  I just know it!”  You’re being deceived.
“Hey, they’re my friends.  I can hang with them and just not do what they are doing.  You know, I can be a light in their darkness.”  You’re deceived.

Non-believers never become Believers by osmosis.  That takes a sovereign act of God.  And you have been warned by the Lord not to be deceived into thinking “good morals or good character will redeem bad company.”  In fact, the truth is just the opposite.  Don’t be deceived into thinking this warning from God doesn’t apply in your case for whatever reason you conjure up in your mind to justify your disobedience.

It’s just not going to happen.  Why?  Because God doesn’t lie.


The Addiction to Peer Pressure

We see this scenario graphically played out for us in the life of a young man in the first chapter of Proverbs.  It’s peer pressure run amok.  It’s the “us” and “we” and “they” and “everyone” against the “you” and “your” and the faithfulness of God’s Word.  It’s a classic picture of temptation.  And of classic failure.

First, the gracious warning from the father and mother and the blessings of that warning.

Proverbs 1:8 – My son, hear the instruction of your father, and do not forsake the law of your mother; (why) for they (the instruction and the law) will be a graceful ornament on your head, and chains about your neck.

Again, Proverbs 1:8 – My son, hear (or, listen, obey, proclaim to others) the instruction (or, correction, discipline) of your father, and do not forsake (or, abandon, cast off or away, to leave alone) the law (or, direction, custom, manner of living) of your mother; (why) for they (the instruction and discipline of our father and the law or custom or manner of living or example of your mother) will be a graceful ornament on your head (or, a wreath of grace, a garland), and chains about your neck.

The phrase a “graceful ornament” seems strange to our ears today.  I mean, what’s that exactly?  It’s a garland, a wreath, a decorative headpiece worn as a sign of approval and honor and is given as a result of following wisdom.  In fact, it’s actually awarded by wisdom itself (Prov. 4:9).1

And the “chains about your neck” might give us the mental picture of Mr. T or some rap artist with a wad of bling hanging from his neck.  But that’s not what this passage is talking about.  It’s a necklace, and is used figuratively of wearing a parent’s instructions around one’s neck as a valued chain of remembrance. 2

In essence, do not forsake what you have been taught.  Do not abandon the acceptance and honor you have received by living a life of wisdom.  Do not throw it all away for the fleeting approval of the world.  Do not become friends with those the Lord commands otherwise.  Do not make yourself the very enemy of God.  Remember?

James 4:4 – Adulterers and adulteresses!  Do you not know that friendship with the world is enmity (or, hostility, hatred, enemy) with God?  Whoever therefore wants (or, desires, is inclined) to be a friend of the world (what) makes himself an enemy of God.

And who in their right mind would want to make themselves an enemy of God?  But that’s exactly what happens when we desire the friendship of the world.  Hence, “Do not be deceived:  Evil company corrupts good habits” (1 Cor. 15:33).


The Quick Slide into Sin and Judgment

Now watch how quickly temptation can come to the young son.  And notice how appealing it all sounds.   Just like the motto of the Three Musketeers, “All for One and One for All!”

And pay careful attention to the detail in which the father warns his loved, naive, gullible, young son about the ways of the world and the temptations he will face.

Proverbs 1:10 – My son, if (or, when) sinners (or, those reckoned as offenders, those facing condemnation for their actions, those under the wrath and judgment of God) entice (or, deceive, persuade, allure) you, (what) do not consent (or, yield, be willing, acquiescent).

Then there’s the appeal to the flesh.  The almost irresistible compulsion for acceptance, power, anticipation, greed, lust, companionship and belonging.  All of what is to be found in Christ is used as a temptation to entice the young son away from Christ and into a life of sin.

Have you ever been there?  Does any of this sound familiar?  Do we not sin to satisfy, in our selfish flesh and in our own ways, the very needs Christ promised to fulfill for us in His own flesh?

Acceptance and Belonging

Proverbs 1:11aIf (or when) they say, “Come with us (acceptance and belonging)…”

Power, Violence and Excitement

Proverbs 1:11b-12 – Let us (acceptance and belonging) lie in wait (excitement) to shed blood (power and violence); let us (acceptance and belonging) lurk secretly (excitement) for the innocent without cause (power and violence); let us (acceptance and belonging) swallow them alive like Sheol (power), and whole, like those who go down to the Pit (power).

Greed, Lust and the Love of Money

Proverbs 1:13We (acceptance and belonging) shall find all kinds of precious possessions (greed, lust and the love of money), we (acceptance and belonging) shall fill our houses with spoil (greed, lust and the love of money).

Companionship and Belonging

Proverbs 1:14 – Cast in your lot among us (companionship and belonging), let us (acceptance and belonging) all have one purse (companionship).


The Warning from Our Father

Now the father, our Father, reveals to his son, you and me, the end result of a life lived in the flesh.  It’s the natural consequence of being deceived about “evil company” (1 Cor. 15:33).  First, he gives the stern warning to not even get close to those under the wrath of God.  Don’t even associate with them or walk in the “way with them” he says.  Why?  Because we are not to be bound or yoked together by friendship or affection with unbelievers.  “Do not be unequally yoked together with unbelievers.  For what fellowship has righteousness with lawlessness?  And what communion has light with darkness” (2 Cor. 6:14).

Proverbs 1:15 – My son, do not walk in the way with them (or, in their manner or course of life, on their journey), keep your foot from (what) their path.

This reminds us of the importance of staying completely free from the contaminating influence of the world, the ungodly, the sinful, and the scornful, and to have as our delight the things of God, even His law and His decrees.

Psalm 1:1-2 – Blessed is the man who (what) walks not in the counsel of the ungodly, nor (what) stands in the path of sinners, nor (what) sits in the seat of the scornful; but his delight is in the law of the LORD, and in His law he meditates day and night.

The father now anticipates the pointed questions now hurled at him from his son.  They are probably the very same questions he threw in anger at his own father: “Why?  Why can’t I spend time with my friends?  You don’t even know them.  You know nothing about them.  You’re trying to control who I hang around with.  They’re my friends and you can’t choose my friends for me!”

But the father does know all about his son’s friends and what will inevitably happen to them.  And he also knows what will happen to his own young son if he continues down this path in a relationship with them.  How?  How does he know this?  Because he believes the Word of God and the warnings given and he has seen, firsthand, all through his life, the pain and suffering that has come upon those who have gone their own way and shipwrecked their lives running from the truth.   He knows.  He’s seen.  And it breaks his heart to imagine the same happening to his own son.

Proverbs 1:16-18 – For their feet run (or, to run swiftly, quickly, to hurry) to evil (or, what is wicked, malignant, hurtful, bad in a moral and ethical sense), and they make haste (or, are anxious, hurried) to shed blood.  Surely, in vain the net is spread in the sight of any bird; but they lie in wait for (what) their own blood, they lurk secretly for (what) their own lives.

Evil is always self-destructive.

Galatians 6:7-8 – Do not be deceived, God is not mocked; for (condition) whatever a man sows, (result) that he will also reap.  For he who sows to his flesh will of the flesh reap corruption, but he who sows to the Spirit will of the Spirit reap everlasting life.

The truth from Scripture teaches if a man, even your friends, are swift to do evil and live unlike the Lord Who created them, their end result will be the ruin and destruction of their own lives.   They will sow to their flesh and, in doing so, reap corruption and death and despair— not only in this life, but in the life to come.  But if they sow to the Spirit, as the father is trying to warn his young son, they will reap peace, joy, love, and everlasting life.  There are only two roads, only two paths, and only two choices.  One to life and, as Jesus said, the other to destruction (Matt. 7:13-14).

“Which will it be, my son?” the father asks.  “Which road do you choose?”

Which will it be for you?

And just so we don’t fall prey to the deception we talked about in the beginning, the “evil company corrupts good habits or morals, character” thing, the father leaves us with one final, global truth that applies to all of mankind.  It’s actually quite simple.

Proverbs 1:19 – So are the ways of everyone (or, the whole, everything, each, all, the entire, without exception, including you and me) who is greedy (or, to gain wrongfully or by unrighteous violence, to cut off, to break off, to be covetous) for gain (or, profit gained with selfish goals or motives in mind); it (the greed for gain) takes away (or, seizes, captures, to carry off as plunder, to snatch away) the life (or, soul, self, desire, mind, emotion, passion) of its owners.

The love for money consumes those who lust for it like an uncontrollable, raging fire that devours all that is in its path.  And, unfortunately, this very love for money is the hallmark and centerpiece of our society.  It becomes our idol, our passion, and the standard by which we measure our own value and self-worth.

“I make more than this guy.  Therefore, I’m a better man.”
“I can take a better vacation than you.  Therefore, I’m a better man.”
“I have nicer clothes, a bigger house, a brand new car.  Therefore, I’m a better man.”

But in whose eyes are you deemed a better man?  Yours?  Probably.  But certainly not in the eyes of the Lord.  After all, “the LORD does not see as man sees; for man looks at the outward appearance, but the LORD looks at the heart” (1 Sam. 16:7).

And with our drive to be a better man, at least in our own eyes, we will soon find ourselves willing to sacrifice our marriage, our time with our children, and even our love of our Lord for just a little more money.  And why?  Because we’ve so quickly forgotten the warning from the Lord.

1 Timothy 6:9-10 – But those who desire to be rich (or, wealthy) fall into temptation and a snare, and into many foolish and harmful lusts which drown men in destruction and perdition. (why) For the love of money (or, covetousness) is a root of all kinds of evil, for which some have strayed from the faith in their greediness, and pierced themselves through with many sorrows.

“Don’t let that happen to you, my son,” the father would say.


How Much is Enough?

One final thought.  When the multimillionaire, John D. Rockefeller, was once asked, “How much money is enough?”  He replied, quite transparently, “Just a little bit more.” Or, “I really don’t know.  But, for some reason, the millions of dollars I already have don’t make me feel good about myself.  So I guess a little bit more will help.  Just a little bit more.”

Sad.  So sad.

Because true joy and purpose comes from the “fear of the Lord.”  After all, that very “fear of the Lord is the beginning of knowledge” (Prov. 1:7).   That wonderful knowledge is the blessed knowledge of the Holy One and of His ways.

And nothing compares with knowing Him.

Adveho quis may.
Come what may.

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1.  Baker, W., & Carpenter, E. E. (2003). The Complete Word study Dictionary: Old Testament (p. 545). Chattanooga, TN: AMG Publishers.
2.  Ibid., p. 855.

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Day One:  From Proverbs 1

Day One: From Proverbs 1

But Fools

Today, Day One, we are looking at the first Proverb.  And, as often happens, I am arrested by the simplicity of the Lord’s words:

“The fear of the Lord is the beginning of knowledge, but fools despise wisdom and instruction” (Prov. 1:7).

First, let’s see exactly what these words say.

“The fear (or, awe, profound respect, but also frightening terror) of the Lord (and not man) is the beginning (or, the first, chief, best, choice part, the firstfruits) of knowledge (or, knowing, learning, discernment, insight, perception), but (by contrast) fools (or, one who hates wisdom and walks in folly despising both wisdom and morality, one who mocks when found guilty, a simpleton) despise (or, to hold in contempt or as insignificant, to scorn or greatly disrespect) wisdom (or, skill, prudence, shrewdness) and instruction (or, discipline).”

Then, let’s see what these words mean.

The great contrast between God and fallen, unredeemed man is clearly seen in this single verse.  In fact, we’ll see this contrast all through the Proverbs.

Human wisdom, or man’s wisdom, is the ability to understand and communicate the highest truths or virtues based on this world’s logic and values.  It’s the ability to articulate what this world thinks and the path one should take to successfully navigate this world’s system to some sort of desired end.  But what is that end?  Fame, riches, temporal pleasure or perceived happiness, freedom from pain or suffering or calamity— at least for a short time?  What else can this world offer?

We still age, we still get sick, bad and hurtful things still happen to us that we cannot control, and eventually we all still die.  So what can human wisdom do to mitigate the inevitable?  Even if I am the richest person on the planet, like Solomon, I will still someday die.  And then what?  What will I do with my treasure trove of man’s wisdom?  How will it help me then?

It won’t.  And only a fool fails to recognize that.


It’s Just the Beginning

The Scriptures say the fear of the Lord is the beginning, not the end, of knowledge.  It’s the profound respect and awe we give to our Creator that begins our understanding and insight, our perception and discernment of Who He is.  And once we catch just a glimpse of the majesty of God Himself, we rightfully fall on our face before Him in worship and contrition knowing we are just men, fallen created beings, nothing more than dust and ashes, who have rebelled against the Holy One.  And then we shake in sheer terror and fear for our pride, our arrogance, our prized inflated ego and our disdain for any God other than ourselves.

To honor and revere the Holy One begins to open the floodgates of His mercy and love and knowledge of Himself.  After all, “the fear of the Lord is the beginning of knowledge.”  But there’s a great contrast.  The verse continues by saying, “but fools despise wisdom and instruction.”


But Fools

But fools.  Is that who we are?  Are we fools?  Do we hate the wisdom of God codified in His Word?  Do we walk in folly and mockery despising His moral commands and living in the filth of our own sin?  Look around.  I think the answer is obvious.

It says that fools, those who reject God’s Word and live in “the lust of the flesh, the lust of the eyes, and the pride of life” (1 John 2:16) actually despise His wisdom and instruction.  They just don’t not like it, they hate it, they mock it, they hold it in contempt, derision, as something worthless and insignificant, as not worth their time.  They defiantly refuse and reject spiritual discipline and instruction.  They have not the time for God nor His Kingdom because they are trying to make their own way through this world to receive the accolades of man and their own fleeting version of fame and success.  Why?  Because the immediate trumps the eternal.  Because they would rather have what they can see and hold in their hands today than what is promised them for tomorrow, no matter how wonderful that promise may prove to be.

There is great contrast conveyed in these sixteen simple words that have eternal consequences.  Which one are you?

Are you the one who fears the Lord and is beginning to experience true knowledge and the joy of intimacy with the Holy One?  Or are you the fool who is content to live in the midst of an inner city sewer when the Lord wants to take you to Disney World?    And you refuse to go with Him because you can’t imagine how anything could be better than living and playing in the sewer .

How little are you settling for right now living for the immediate and not for the eternal?

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Day Twenty-One:  From Proverbs 21

Day Twenty-One: From Proverbs 21

Some truths for today from Proverbs 21.

Proverbs 21:2 – Every way (or, path, journey, pattern of life) of a man is right (or, just, straight, upright, correct, ethically or morally pleasing) in his own eyes, but (contrast) the LORD weighs (or, measures, ponders, tests, or prove.  It describes God’s weighing action as a process of moral evaluation) the hearts.

Regarding sacrifices (or our outward acts of worship):

Proverbs 21:3 – To do righteousness (or, blameless conduct, integrity, right actions and attitudes) and justice (or, making a right, correct judgment) is more acceptable (or, to choose, elect, decide.  It denotes a choice which is based on a thorough examination and not on a knee-jerk, arbitrary whim) to the LORD than sacrifice (or, that given to God).

In other words, God’s choice is for us to act and live like Him rather than trying to buy Him off with our gifts and sacrifices.

Proverbs 21:27 – The sacrifice (or, that given to God) of the wicked (or, guilty, wrong, transgressor, criminal) is an abomination (or, worthless, unclean, disgusting, offensive); how much more when he brings it with wicked intent (or, mind, plan, device, mischievous purpose, lewdness)!

And one more, that seems to sum up the entire chapter:

Proverbs 21:30 – There is no wisdom (or, experience, skill, shrewdness) or understanding (or, insight, intelligence) or counsel (or, advice, plan, purpose, plot) against the LORD.

And why is that?  Remember the rhetorical questions of 1 Corinthians 1:20:  Where is the wise?  Where is the scribe?  Where is the disputer of this age?  Has not God made foolish the wisdom of this world?

Yes He has.  And do you know why?  It’s because, as Psalm 115:3 clearly states:  “Our God is in His heavens, and He does what He pleases.”  Did you catch that last phrase?  It says, He (God) does what He (God) pleases.  He is God.  And the pseudo wise and self-inflated of our age are not.

And it shows.

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